Healing through dialogue: NYDT and IHOM empower trauma recovery in Matabeleland
Thembelihle Mhlanga
A groundbreaking workshop held from October 14 to 16 in Bulawayo is reshaping the narrative around trauma recovery, as the National Youth Development Trust (NYDT) and the Institute for Healing of Memories (IHOM) joined forces to empower participants from Lupane, Tsholotsho and Nkayi.
This unique initiative focused on personal healing as a crucial step before engaging in dialogues about conflicts, offering hope and strategies for those grappling with unresolved pain.
Loret Mougani, the Africa Programmes Coordinator for IHOM, underscored the workshop’s core message: healing must begin within. “It is upon the inner self of the aggrieved individual that should undergo some healing before the conflicting parties dialogue,” she explained. This sentiment highlights a vital aspect of conflict resolution—the need for individuals to process their trauma before seeking reconciliation.
As discussions unfolded, participants confronted the destructive cycle of revenge. Mougani cautioned against the urge to retaliate, asserting that “the act of revenge or vengeance further hurts the victim.” Her words resonated deeply, as attendees recognized the importance of breaking this cycle to foster personal and communal healing.
Thulisani Nkomo, a participant from Lupane, shared her transformative experience. “This workshop was really of good cause as I got some relief from my previous situation,” she expressed, echoing the sentiments of many who entered the workshop burdened by their pasts but left feeling a renewed sense of hope.
Mlandu Ncube from Tsholotsho also emphasized the need for a mindset shift, urging participants to reject the notion of “returning evil by evil.” He highlighted the crucial role of fostering peace, stating, “This escalates the circle of violence.” His call to action resonated with many, reinforcing the workshop’s message of promoting healing over conflict.
The NYDT and IHOM collaboration provided a safe space for introspection and dialogue, allowing participants to share their stories and emotions. Through various activities designed to facilitate personal growth, attendees not only began their healing journeys but also strengthened the bonds within their community.
As a cornerstone of their mission, the Institute for Healing of Memories aims to promote lasting individual and collective healing in a society grappling with historical injustices. “We seek to contribute to a more peaceful and just future,” Mougani asserted, emphasizing IHOM’s commitment to addressing the roots of trauma and conflict.
By the conclusion of the workshop, participants were equipped with valuable tools and strategies to continue their healing journeys. The experience sparked hope for many, highlighting that healing is achievable and that dialogue can pave the way for understanding and reconciliation.
The collaborative efforts of NYDT and IHOM underscore the transformative power of shared experiences in healing. By empowering individuals to confront their pain, they are nurturing the seeds of peace within their communities. While the journey towards healing continues, initiatives like this illuminate a clear path for those seeking solace and understanding in the wake of trauma.
