Buhlebenkosi Nkomo
Esihlokweni esedlule sikhangele ukuthi kungani umuzi wawakhiwa ngendlela ethile. Ukwakhiwa komuzi kwakungacini ngokumisa izindlu. Esintwini, ukusungulwa komuzi omutsha kwakuhambisana lemikhuba eyayigcizelela ukubambana, ukuhlonipha abadala kanye lokuqalisa impilo entsha ngenhlonipho.
Lanxa eminye yale mikhuba yayitshiyana ngokuya kwemuli, isigaba loba indawo, izifundiswa zamasiko zithi ukwakha umuzi kwakubhekwa njengomsebenzi owawudlula ukwakha izindlu kuphela. Kwakuyikwakha ikhaya, ukusungula imuli kanye lokwakha ikusasa lezizukulwane ezazizalandela.
Ukubonisana Labadala
Ngaphambi kokuthi kuqalwe umsebenzi wokwakha, abadala bemuli babevame ukubuzwa. Babesiza ekukhetheni indawo efaneleyo, benike izeluleko ngendlela umuzi owawuzakhiwa ngayo njalo beqinisekisa ukuthi amasiko emuli ayahlonitshwa.
Kubokhokho bethu, ulwazi lwabadala lwaluthathwa njengegugu ngoba yibo ababegcina umlando, amasiko kanye lemikhuba eyayidluliselwa kuzizukulwane.
Ukutshaya Ihlahla
Ngokutsho kwabanye abadala, kwezinye imuli kwakulomkhuba owawusaziwa ngokuthi yikutshaya ihlahla. Lokhu kwakusenziwa nxa indawo yokwakha umuzi isikhethiwe.
Kwezinye izindawo, umnumzana kumbe omunye omdala wayeqala ngokusika ugatsha loba ukuhlahlula isihlahla endaweni leyo njengophawu lokuthi umsebenzi wokwakha usuqalile. Lanxa indlela yokukwenza yayingehluka, lesi senzo sasimela ukuqala kwesahluko esitsha empilweni yemuli.
Ukwakhiwa Kwakungumsebenzi Wokubambana
Ukwakha umuzi kwakungabi ngumsebenzi womnikazi womuzi yedwa. Izihlobo, omakhelwane labangane babehlangana bezosiza ukuthwala izigodo, ukubumba udaka, ukuhlanganisa umhlanga kanye lokufulela.
Lokhu kwakungagcini ngokuphuthumisa umsebenzi kuphela, kodwa kwakusakha ubudlelwano phakathi kwemuli. Umuntu owayesiza omunye wayekwazi ukuthi laye uzancediswa nxa isikhathi sakhe sokwakha sifika.
Ukubika Umuzi
Ngokutsho kwabanye abadala, kwezinye imuli kwakusenziwa okwakubizwa ngokuthi ukubika umuzi. Lo kwakungumkhuba wokwazisa ukuthi sekusungulwe ikhaya elitsha.
Indlela yokubika umuzi yayitshiyana ngemuli langendawo. Kwezinye kwakuba yikuhlangana kwezihlobo, kwezinye kube ngumkhuleko womndeni, kuthi kwezinye kwenziwe eminye imikhuba yesintu eyayihambisana lokuhlonipha okhokho. Abacwaningi bamasiko bagcizelela ukuthi lokhu kwakungafani kuyo yonke imiphakathi yabo.
Ukuqinisa Umuzi
Abanye abadala baphinda bachaze ukuthi kwezinye imuli kwakwenziwa okwakusaziwa ngokuthi yikuqinisa umuzi. Inhloso kwakungukufisela ikhaya elitsha ukuthula, ukubambana, ukuvikeleka kanye lenhlanhla.
Indlela yokukuqinisa umuzi yayingehluka. Kweminye imizi kwakusiba lokuhlangana kwemuli lapho abadala babefisela imuli impilo enhle, kanti kwezinye kwakulandelwa eminye imikhuba yesintu eyayihambisana lamasiko emuli. Ngakho-ke, lokhu kwakungesilo isiko elalenziwa ngendlela efanayo yibo bonke abantu.
Izinto Zokwakha Zazikhethwa Ngokuhlakanipha
Okhokho babekha izindlu ngezinto ezazitholakala emvelweni, ezinjengezigodo, udaka, umhlanga lotshani. Lezi zinto zazisenza izindlu ziphole ngesikhathi sokutshisa njalo zikhudumale ngesikhathi somqando.
Ukusebenzisa izinto zemvelo kwakuphinde kutshengise ulwazi lwabantu lokusebenzisa inotho yemvelo ngendlela eqhubekayo.
Umuzi Wawungaphezu Kwezindlu
Esintwini, umuzi wawungelakuphetha ngokwakha izindlu. Wawuyindawo yokukhulisa abantwana, ukufundisa ubuntu, ukwamukela izivakatshi kanye lokugcina amasiko emuli.
Yikho okwenza ukwakhiwa komuzi kuphathwe njengomsebenzi owawudinga ukubambisana, ukuhlonipha abadala kanye lokulungiselela ikusasa lemuli.
Isiko Elisafundisa Lanamuhla
Lanxa indlela yokwakha imizi isiguqukile ngenxa yempilo yesimanje, izifundo ezazisemikhubeni le zisalokhu ziqakathekile. Zisifundisa ukubambana, ukuhlonipha abadala, ukwakha ubudlelwano obuqinileyo kanye lokubona ikhaya njengendawo eyakha ubuntu, hatshi izindonga kuphela.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizakhangela indima yesibaya emzini kanye lokuthi kungani sasibhekwa njengenhliziyo yomuzi.
