Ubuhle Bamalobolo: Kwenzakalani Ngemva Kokuphela Komsebenzi Wamalobolo?
Buhlebenkosi Nkomo
Esintwini, amalobolo kawapheli ngokubalwa kwemali kumbe inkomo kuphela. Umsebenzi wamalobolo uyisango elivulela umendo, ubudlelwano phakathi kwemuli ezimbili kanye lempilo entsha kamalukazana lomkhwenyana.
Ngemva kokuvumelana ngemali loba inkomo zamalobolo, kulandela eminye imikhuba lemfanelo eqakathekileyo esiza ukuqinisa ubudlelwano phakathi kwemindeni lokulungiselela abatshadayo impilo yabo entsha.
UMENDO
Umendo yisigaba esilandela amalobolo lapho umalukazana esesuka kibo eyohlala emzini womkhwenyana. Esintwini, lokhu kwakungathathwa njengokutshintsha indawo yokuhlala kuphela kodwa kwakuyikungena emulini entsha kanye lokwamukela izibopho ezintsha.
Abadala babekubona njengesiqalo sempilo entsha, lapho umalukazana ayesiba yingxenye yemuli yakomkhwenyana.
UKUTHWALA UMALUKAZANA
Ngemva kokuphela komsebenzi wamalobolo, kwakulungiswa usuku lokuthwala umalukazana. Ngalolusuku, izihlobo labangane babephelekezela umalukazana besiya emzini wakhe omutsha.
Kwezinye indawo, umakoti wayehamba lezimpahla zasendlini ezinjengamacansi, izitsha kanye lezinye izinto ezazizamsiza ekuqaleni impilo yakhe yomendo.
Ukuthwala umalukazana kwakungumkhosi wokujabula owawuhlanganisa imindeni yomibili futhi uqinisa ubudlelwano obase buqalisiwe ngesikhathi samalobolo.
UKUMAMUKELWA EMZINI OMUTSHA
Nxa umalukazana esefikile emzini, wayesemukelwa ngabomuzi ngemfudumalo. Lokhu kwakuyindlela yokumtshengisa ukuthi useyingxenye yemuli futhi useyamukelwe njengomakoti walelokhaya.
Kwezinye imuli, kwakulungiswa ukudla kumbe umcimbi omncane wokumamukela ukuze azwe ukuthi usekhaya. Lokhu kwakusenza kube lula ukuthi ajayele impilo entsha kanye labantu asezaphila labo.
UKUFAKWA EKHAYA LOKWETHULWA EMADLOZINI
Kweminye imindeni, umalukazana wayesethulwa emadlozini ngemikhuba eyayenzelwe ukumazisa kwabaphansi ukuthi sekulomuntu omutsha osengene emulini.
Lokhu kwakukholakala ukuthi kusiza ukuqinisa ubudlelwano phakathi kwabaphilayo labadala asebadlula emhlabeni.
Ukufakwa ekhaya kwakuluphawu lokuthi umakoti useyingxenye epheleleyo yemuli futhi usehlangene lesizukulwane salelokhaya.
IMISEBENZI YABAKHWENYANA LOMAKOTI NGEMVA KWAMALOBOLO
Ngemva komendo, umalukazana lomkhwenyana babengelamsebenzi wokuhlala ndawonye kuphela kodwa babethwala izibopho ezithile emulini.
Umakoti wayelindelwe ukuthi asebenzelane kahle labomuzi, ahloniphe abadala futhi abe yingxenye yokwakha umuzi. Umkhwenyana laye wayelindelwe ukuthi anakekele umkakhe, akhe umuzi oqinileyo futhi aqhubeke ehlonipha imuli yomkakhe.
Abadala babesithi impumelelo yomendo incike ekubambisaneni kwababili kanye lokuhloniphana.
IZIFUNGO, INHLONIPHO LEMIGOMO YOMENDO
Esintwini, umendo wawusekelwe phezu kwenhlonipho, ukwethembeka kanye lokuzimisela ukuhlala ndawonye ngezikhathi ezinhle lezinzima.
Abatshadayo babeselulekwa ukuthi bagcine izifungo zabo, bahloniphane njalo bagweme ukwenza izinto ezingaletha ingxabano phakathi kwemuli zombili.
Inhlonipho yayikhangelwa njengesisekelo somuzi oqinileyo ngoba yiyo eyayigcina ukuthula lokubambana phakathi
kwabantu.
INDIMA YABOMALUMEKAZI LABAKHOKHELI BEMULI
Omalumekazi, ogogo, obabakazi kanye labanye abadala babedlala indima eqakathekileyo ngemva komendo. Yibo ababefundisa abatshadayo ngemisebenzi yasemzini, indlela yokuxazulula ukungezwani kanye lokwakha umuzi ophumelelayo.
Kwakuvamile ukuthi umakoti anikwe izeluleko ngomalumekazi ngaphambi kokuthuthela emzini, kuthi lomkhwenyana afundiswe ngabadala bakibo ngemfanelo zakhe njengendoda yomuzi.
Lelicebo lalenzelwe ukusiza abatshadayo ukuthi baqale impilo yabo ngomqondo oqondileyo langokuhlakanipha.
UKUGCINWA KOBUDLELWANO PHAKATHI KWEMULI
Ngemva komendo, imuli zombili zaziqhubeka zixhumana. Imicimbi enjengemibuthano yemuli, imikhosi kanye lezikhathi zobunzima yayisenza ubudlelwano buqhubeke buqina.
Lokhu kwakusenza ukuthi umakoti angazizwa ehlukene lemuli yakhe yokuzalwa njalo lomkhwenyana amukelwe njengomntwana wemuli entsha.
INGQIKITHI YOMENDO ESINTWINI
Abadala bagcizelela ukuthi amalobolo kawasikho ukuphela kohambo kodwa ayisiqalo sobudlelwano obude phakathi kwemuli ezimbili.
Ngakho-ke, ngemva kokuphela komsebenzi wamalobolo, kuqala umsebenzi omkhulu wokwakha umuzi, ukukhulisa imuli kanye lokugcina amasiko esintu ephila.
Esintwini, umendo awumelanga uqondwe njengokuhlala ndawonye kuphela, kodwa njengobudlelwano obakhelwe phezu kwenhlonipho, ukubambisana kanye lokuhlonipha imvelaphi yemuli zombili.
