Buhlebenkosi Nkomo
Esintwini ukulotsholwa ngumkhuba oqakathekileyo owawusetshenziswa ukuhlanganisa imuli ezimbili, ukwakha ubudlelwano kanye lokuhloniphana phakathi kwemindeni. Lobu budlelwano babungacini ngokubhadala inkomo kumbe imali kuphela, kodwa babuyisivumelwano sokwakha umuzi oqinileyo, ohloniphekayo njalo ogcina amasiko esizwe.
Intengo Kamakoti
Intengo kamakoti yayingehluka ngemuli langesimo sentombi. Imuli zabakhwenyana zazivame ukuza lezifuyo, ikakhulu inkomo, ukuze zibonge abazali bentombi ngokuyikhulisa. Inani lelobolo lalihluka ngokuya ngemvumelwano yemuli zombili.
- Ongela mntwana
“Ongela mntwana” kutshiwo intombi engelabantwana ngesikhathi ilotsholwa. Esintwini lokhu kwakuthathwa njengokuhlonipha imuli kanye lokulondoloza isithunzi sentombi.
Imuli yayikuthakazelela lokhu ngoba kwakubonisa ukukhuliswa kuhle kwentombi kanye lokugcina imfanelo zesintu. Kwezinye izikhathi lokhu kwakungenza ilobolo likhuphuke ngenxa yendlela imuli ebona ngayo isithunzi sentombi.
- Olabantwana
“Olabantwana” kutshiwo owesifazane oselabantwana ngesikhathi elotsholwa. Esintwini lokhu kwakungavimbi ukuthi umuntu alotsholwe kumbe atshade.
Kodwa-ke, imuli zazivame ukukhuluma ngokuthi abantwana bazahlala ngaphi kanye lokuthi ngubani ozathwala imfanelo yabo. Lokhu kwakusenziwa ngenhlonipho enkulu ukuze kugcinwe ukuthula lobudlelwano phakathi kwemindeni.
Ingqubo Yokulotsholwa
Ukulotsholwa kwakulandela izigaba ezithile eziqakathekileyo:
- Ukucela Intombi – Imuli yomfana yayiqala ngokuthumela abadala ukuyacela ubuhlobo emzini wentombi.
- Ukubonisana Kwemuli – Abadala babekhuluma ngezifiso zomtshado kanye lokuthi imuli zombili ziyavumelana yini.
- Ukubekwa Kwelobolo – Kwakukhulunywa ngenani lenkomo kumbe imali ezabhadalwa.
- Ukuhlawula Izibizo – Lapha kwakubhadalwa izibizo ezitshiyeneyo kanye lezipho zabazali lezihlobo.
- Ukupha Izihlobo – Omalume, ogogo, labanye babethola izipho zokubonga umsebenzi wabo ekukhuliseni intombi. Okwakusenziwa Ngemva Kokulotsholwa
Ngemva kokuphela kokulotsholwa kwakulandelwa ezinye izigaba:
- Umbondo – Umakoti wayethunyelwa lezinto zasendlini ezifana lezitsha, amaceke, imbiza kanye lokunye ukudla ukuze aqalise impilo emzini.
- Ukuqhutshwa Kukamakoti Emzini – Intombi yayisiwa emzini womkhwenyana ngemikhosi, ukuhlabelela kanye lokugiya.
- Ukuqiniswa Kobudlelwano – Imuli zombili zazisiqhubeka zivakatshelana ukuze ubudlelwano buqine.
- Ukuhlonitshwa Kukamakoti – Umakoti wayefundiswa indlela yokuphatha umuzi, ukuhlonipha abadala kanye lokugcina amasiko.
